2013–2020
About Connor
The work is personal because the problem was personal.
I’m a coach, facilitator, writer, and founder based in Lisbon. For more than a decade, I’ve been exploring how ambitious people can do meaningful work without sacrificing their health, relationships, or sense of self.
In 2017, two years into an exciting role at Google London, I found myself burned out. On paper, things were going well. Internally, I was stressed, depleted, and increasingly absent from the rest of my life.
It became clear that working harder was not the answer. I needed a fundamentally different way to operate.
2017
The turning point
2020
Building Forgewell
2025
The Inner Operating System
Today
Life in Lisbon
What informs my work
Body before strategy
Your state shapes what you can see, choose, and do. Regulation is the foundation, not an optional extra.
Practice over information
Knowing is not the same as changing. The tools need to survive contact with an ordinary Tuesday.
Ambition and wellbeing
You should not have to choose between meaningful achievement and feeling well enough to enjoy your life.
Small experiments
Lasting change is built through curiosity, feedback, and compassionate iteration—not perfection.
Training & perspective
Serious ideas, made practical.
I’m a certified Search Inside Yourself teacher and Make Time facilitator, with additional training in mental resilience, yoga, breathwork, and meditation. My work blends research with lived experience—and always comes back to what people can actually use.